It keeps the fire burning between you and the sexual chemistry on full blast. When you make a woman feel hot, it makes her want to be hot for you. She pivots and allows me to "steal" her away from this guy. Still, things a man can also say to suddenly make a lass horny may have nothing to do with sex but are titillating in other ways. Take her out for an adventure together. It goes with the territory and nothing to get upset over - quietly note these guys in your head and make sure you steer clear of them. Reply Sheila on February 3, So she has a self confidence and self value issue. Many guys will subtly "test" you - see how you react to mildly flirty behavior. When you have a difficult or sensitive message to convey, excessive politeness can often end up masking the direct message and causing more misunderstanding. Did a previous partner get off on it? As a woman, when we are just waking up out of bed with messy hair and no make up on it is so nice to still be told we are beautiful. A man who is partnered with an attractive woman is automatically assumed to be smarter, more charismatic, more successful than his counterparts. Have her dress up to go dancing or try a new restaurant in the city. Reply stephen on August 26, My wife is a woman and she has specifically noted that she feels as though I am being fake when saying that to her when she knows she is not looking good. Besides, if she told you why, you might try to recreate it all the time.